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What can we learn about true love from Samson and Delilah? A lot, actually (if you need to be refreshed on their story, read Judges 16).
1. “Love” is not enough. The Bible tells us that Samson “fell in love” with Delilah (Judges 16:4). But love without wisdom got him into big trouble.
2. Real love is priceless! Delilah was enticed by an enormous amount of money to deceive Samson (Judges 16:5). Watch out for lovers who can be bought by your enemies. In fact, you might want to avoid alleged lovers who can be bought at all.
3. Love and lies don’t mix. Both Samson and Delilah were lying to each other. If you think you are in love with a liar, you may be lying to yourself.
4. Getting “love” without marriage is no bargain in the end! It certainly wasn’t for Samson. Don’t by-pass the marriage part. Don’t shop for bargains when it comes to love.
5. Good relationships do not require ropes. Ropes are good for dragging, binding, jumping and even hanging, but they are not usually needed for real love. So, if your partner keeps tying you up in your sleep (literally, see Judges 16:8 & 12), you might want to reconsider that relationship.
6. Excessive nagging can be harmful to your health. It was for Samson (Judges 16:10,13,15 and especially verse 16). Learn to discern legitimate encouragement from blatant manipulation.
7. Real love is a two-way street. Both Samson and Delilah loved the other on a one-way street. Actually, they were using the other to love themselves. “It’s all about me” is a lousy way to love.
BONUS lesson: Good hair has its merits.
Joel Mark Solliday, B.A., M.Div., is the editor of Campus CrossWalk and the pulpit minister of the Northern Light Church of Christ in Minnesota . He earned his M.Div. at Fuller Theological Seminary and has worked at Pepperdine and ACU. His wife Katie is a junior high school teacher.
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